{"id":9584,"date":"2019-01-19T12:51:18","date_gmt":"2019-01-19T17:51:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/?p=9584"},"modified":"2019-01-19T12:53:10","modified_gmt":"2019-01-19T17:53:10","slug":"family-values-take-a-hit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/?p=9584","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Family values&#8217; take a hit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/michael-in-norfolk.blogspot.com\/2019\/01\/mother-chooses-gay-daughter-over.html\" target=\"_blank\">Michael Hamar<\/a> points toward the story of a mother who left her church rather than abandon her lesbian daughter.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>         After 20 years in an evangelical church, the mother of five &#8220;believed that being gay was somehow wrong.&#8221; . . . . But she knew their family would never be the same in the church again. The advice from her Bible study peers was clear: &#8220;Homosexuality is a sin and we can&#8217;t accept it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So she had a choice to make. And in a tearful moment onstage she said, &#8221; I realized I was being asked to choose between the two most important parts of my life: my child and my church. I chose my child.&#8221; And the audience stood and applauded.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Good for mom!  The takeaways:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\n<p>&#8216;Family values&#8217; is a marketing lie.  The 1<sup>st<\/sup>-Century Christian church was a cult, and the New Testament is the literature of a cult.  Christianity is, necessarily, anti-family &#8212; because healthy marriages and families undermine the authority of the cult.<\/p>\n<li>\n<p>Most people, like this mother, have too much sense and decency to be good Christians.  Those people who don&#8217;t tend toward the conservative denominations, such as the Southern Baptists.<\/p>\n<li>\n<p>Stay the hell away from people who don&#8217;t, because they will betray you for the glory of Jesus without a second thought; put them as far out of your life as you can.<\/ol>\n<p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Michael Hamar points toward the story of a mother who left her church rather than abandon her lesbian daughter. After 20 years in an evangelical church, the mother of five &#8220;believed that being gay was somehow wrong.&#8221; . . . &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/?p=9584\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9584"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9584"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9584\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9587,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9584\/revisions\/9587"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9584"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9584"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9584"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}