Spiritual Sounding Board’s<\/i> Julie Anne<\/a> publishes a thoughtful meditation<\/a> on the ways that pastors use language to signal disapproval and isolate members. Well worth reading.<\/p>\n Ok, Kathi brought up a knitting group and coincidentally I was in a knitting group while attending my former church which I believe runs like a cult, Beaverton Grace Bible Church. This knitting group consisted of some friends from a former church and also other knitting friends, some were Believers, some not. I was never told not to go to the knitting group by my pastor, but I felt guilty each time I went. I felt I was betraying someone, but who? Yes, I thought I was betraying my pastor and his \u201cmission.\u201d<\/p>\n Whenever I played the piano for the local high school choir and the concert coincided with Wednesday evening services, I felt guilty that I wasn\u2019t spiritual enough, that I was letting my church family down. These guilty feelings really weighed on me. Why couldn\u2019t I spend time with great friends and knit, even if the conversation didn\u2019t always revolve around the gospel? Why couldn\u2019t I share my love of music with high school students who were part of my community? We were building relationships and I was getting to know people in my community. Where was this division coming from?<\/p>\n My gut proved me right. I later got word from my friend who was a staff employee that my pastor, Chuck O\u2019Neal, did NOT like me meeting with other ladies to knit.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n We should expect the domineering, cult-like behavior of churches to intensify as the growing numbers of ‘nones’ force them further into retreat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Spiritual Sounding Board’s Julie Anne publishes a thoughtful meditation on the ways that pastors use language to signal disapproval and isolate members. Well worth reading. Ok, Kathi brought up a knitting group and coincidentally I was in a knitting group … Continue reading \n