{"id":2564,"date":"2015-11-04T15:34:38","date_gmt":"2015-11-04T20:34:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/?p=2564"},"modified":"2015-11-04T15:34:38","modified_gmt":"2015-11-04T20:34:38","slug":"feel-the-love-department-smell-the-sickness-edition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/?p=2564","title":{"rendered":"Feel the love department: Smell-the-sickness edition"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rawstory.com\/2015\/11\/missouri-townspeople-shun-sex-abuse-victim-as-a-liar-even-after-good-man-admits-to-raping-her\/\" target=\"_blank\">an egregious example<\/a> of something I&#8217;ve pointed-out <i>ad nauseum<\/i>.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>A child sex abuse victim says she\u2019s been <SPAN style=\"BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a8f2f5\">denied housing<\/span> after accusing a \u201cgood man\u201d of molesting her for years \u2014 and Missouri prosecutors are mystified that so <SPAN style=\"BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a8f2f5\">many community members are supporting the admitted sex offender<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>Darren Paden was sentenced to 50 years in prison Friday after pleading <SPAN style=\"BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a8f2f5\">guilty<\/span> in August to two counts of first-degree statutory sodomy \u2014 but friends, family members, church elders and community leaders <SPAN style=\"BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a8f2f5\">begged a judge to go easy on him<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>Prosecutors said the <SPAN style=\"BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a8f2f5\">52-year-old Paden sexually abused the girl up to 300 times over a decade, beginning before she was 5 years old<\/span>. His 28-year-old son, Anthony Paden, was also charged with sex abuse, although his case remains pending.<\/p>\n<p>But community members have <SPAN style=\"BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a8f2f5\">turned their backs<\/span> on the girl, who is <SPAN style=\"BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a8f2f5\">now 18<\/span> years old and testified against her abuser in court &#8230;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Paden was a deacon at his church.<\/p>\n<p>This is not a freak, one-off perversity.  Ask any journalist, any lawyer, any doctor, any social worker, any police officer, any religious activist, anybody with first-hand knowledge of these cases, and without exception they will tell you the exact same thing: Congregations all-but-invariably rally to support of the offender and re-victimize his victim.<\/p>\n<p>That is who is sitting in church, and the best thing you can do for your children is keep them away from those debased slavish freaks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s an egregious example of something I&#8217;ve pointed-out ad nauseum. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/?p=2564\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2564"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2564"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2564\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2565,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2564\/revisions\/2565"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}