{"id":11789,"date":"2020-02-27T09:45:50","date_gmt":"2020-02-27T14:45:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/?p=11789"},"modified":"2020-02-27T10:24:27","modified_gmt":"2020-02-27T15:24:27","slug":"an-irritating-reminder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/?p=11789","title":{"rendered":"An irritating reminder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As we all marvel at the inexhaustible enthusiasm of evangelicals for Donald Trump, it&#8217;s worthwhile to recall one of the <a href=\"https:\/\/sbcvoices.com\/what-makes-for-a-high-quality-spouse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">most insidious of their teachings<\/a> and to recognize that they&#8217;re persisting in things besides trying to kill-off the gains of the Enlightenment.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Second, I can teach my boys to look for the one great quality in a spouse that matters more than any. I can <SPAN style=\"BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a8f2f5\">teach each boy to look for a woman who loves Jesus more than she loves him<\/span>. I want my boys to marry into a partnership where they pursue God together. That means that above anything else there must be that deep love for Jesus.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>No.  Anybody who thinks that pleasing an Invisible Friend is more important than their wedding vows is a fool who isn&#8217;t actually married at all, and who is committing a fraud against his or her spouse.<\/p>\n<p>It is not an accident that evangelicals have the highest divorce rate in the country; it&#8217;s the direct, predictable consequence of cult-like nonsense like this.  Better he taught his boys to look for a spouse they can count on being in their corner when they need her.<\/p>\n<p><b>UPDATE:<\/b> &#0160; <a href=\"https:\/\/sbcvoices.com\/baptisms-are-down-woe-is-us-can-this-be-explained\/?utm_source=feedburner&#038;utm_medium=feed&#038;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+SbcVoices+%28SBC+Voices%29\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The same site noodles<\/a> what ought to be done about the SBC&#8217;s steadily-declining rate of Baptisms, and notes this:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>One of our two presidential candidates (Mohler) has offered in the past a real solution: <SPAN style=\"BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a8f2f5\">Southern Baptist couples should have more babies<\/span>. That would prove more effective than any new plan or program.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Famously, Mohler encourages seminarians to get married and to start families as quickly as possible, though delaying marriage until the late 20&#8217;s vastly enhances their stability and cuts divorce.  As I&#8217;ve said countless times through the years, and in spite of the self-aggrandizing marketing lies about religion and marriage, <i>Southern Baptists do not believe in marriage; they believe in animal husbandry<\/i>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As we all marvel at the inexhaustible enthusiasm of evangelicals for Donald Trump, it&#8217;s worthwhile to recall one of the most insidious of their teachings and to recognize that they&#8217;re persisting in things besides trying to kill-off the gains of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/?p=11789\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11789"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11789"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11789\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11795,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11789\/revisions\/11795"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11789"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11789"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.bobfelton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11789"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}